I can't understand people who drink a couple of bottles a night at home or drink by themselves.
Lone drinking is one of the most depressing things ever.
the confidence thing
i get more sociable, have a better time and sometimes it makes it easier to not think about stuff you don't want to think about although obviously sometimes it works the other way.
what worries me a bit though is how much of a habit it's become and how much i rely on it for certain situations
like the taste, like feeling drug, stimulates conversation, fun, i like the atmosphere of pubs and clubs, aids dancing
RE: the taste. i remember this anti-alcohol guy coming into my school and asking us why we thought people drink, and I said because it tastes nice and he INSISTED that NO ONE likes the taste of alcohol. hahaha
souns like the time during sex ed when our teacher said "come to think of it there's basically NO reason you'd want to have sex with someone WITHOUT using protection! Can anyone think of one?"
The first suggestion was "to have children". She got pwned.
down to talks like this. You get all the teachers sitting at the back thinking 'as soon as we've got through to the end of the day we're going to get ratted'.
At a previous school there were lots of teachers who would get a bit sloshed on Friday lunchtime and then try to teach year 10 without them knowing, it became a sort of competition...
somepeople say that drinking reduces inhibitions and reveals the real self but i've decided my inhibitions are the defining feature of my real self and I dont like losing them.
because drunk people are annoying when you're not drunk, and LOADS of fun when you are
sometimes: because a gin and tonic tastes really fucking good
Sometimes: because it makes me lots more sociable
- I have an inability to say no to most things
- Helps me to loosen up in social situations as I'm naturally fairly quiet and shy
- I like dancing, and it helps me to dance
- Basically, I just love getting shitfaced drunk. I know full well that thats not big or clever, but I do.
and am a terrible bore i think, though in turns entertaining. i drink because... i don't think i can let go without it anymore. i'm not especially good at being gregarious without it - though i used to be aces at socialiting.. on friday i more or less spent the first part of the evening staring into my phone until the alcohol kicked in so i could talk to people.. i can't remember the last time i had sex sober. or even kissed someone. gah. so yeah it's a social crutch and i am dependent now. need to quit drinking before i am a proper alcoholic.
I hate that people can be ultra-annoying, do stupid/horrible things and then say "Oh, but I was drunk, it wasn't my fault" and "I was so drunk, I didn't mean to" as if that counts as an excuse for being a complete jerk.
I hate even more that I've been guilty of that, which I suppose is one reason why I stopped. But it's about the most annoying thing there is....
Like when you have a bottle of whiskey or a bottle of vodka or both and you down a huge gulp and it feels like your stomach is aflame and everything swirls around and you can't remember anything and can't think of anything about from the fire inside.
but seriously, because i like getting absolutely wrecked, rolling around, and getting away with abusing people, knocking drinks over, singing out of key, air guitaring and pulling ridiculous faces for pictures.
I feel pained and unhappy.Therefore,I try not to think about why I drink.
In fact,I try not to think much at all,and alcohol helps a lot in this respect.
So to escape the boredom and mundanities of real life.How depressing,I think I mught have a drink
Or is it just that your friends drag you to some really awful shitholes?
I mean, my friends do occasionally insist on going to terrible clubs, but now that drinking isn't an option for me, I don't think "I'd rather stay home than go there sober", I just go.
where I live there are only awful places filled with mostly awful people. Apart from my friends, obvs. There would be absolutely no reason for me to go unless I was getting drunk. If I'm somewhere good, where I actually enjoy the music, then I don't need to get drunk.
I find being drunk a horrible feeling and dont like how it makes me black out, the gap in memory gets filled with all kinds of doubts and anxieties. Straight edge till death.
with girls!
And dance....i got moves when i get's boozed!
Helps me forget about real-life issues
Although I did become tee-total for one ear at uni.....got massive respect/trust from most people but always felt like I was missing out on the fun-times
I get really self concious if I'm out in a club without drinking, and don't like dancing unless I'm half way to drunk... And even then I still worry people think I look like a fool. Also, I've grown up in a household where we have a glass of wine or a coupla beers with a meal, and so even when I'm away from home at uni I still tend to have a drink in the evening, though my housemates don't.
and stages of just being bored of it. I really have to be in the right mood for boozin to get pissed or it just goes wrong so I usulay dont do it... very often... if I can help it... *shity eyes*
but getting fucked less. I would assume this is good but it may be a case of getting used to the drink :(
but i drink because i like the taste and its quite fun socially, and the weather and sometimes when im stressed it relaxes me out and theres a perfect stage described above of not being quite pissed but almost there which is a wicked numb feeling ting.
just coz
lemme alone
tastes good
and gives me confidence
yes
because it is that point in the academic calendar
seriously. My wife's started telling me off about it 'you always drink five times as much at the end of the year cos you're tired and stressed out'.
To numb the pain
the pain of living so far away from me?
Exactly
x
I alternate
Cider / Lager / Real Ale / Guinness
Will occasionally have a Strongbow topped up with Red Aftershock- StrongShock. Best drink ever.
Err yeah
I meant to say:
That's why I drink. Because it's nice.
for a laugh
I can't understand people who drink a couple of bottles a night at home or drink by themselves.
Lone drinking is one of the most depressing things ever.
Has to be done occasionally
it's not necessarily depressing
it is what you make of it. alcohol+loud (good) music=win
^ alcoholic
NO U
Coz I'm a lad
it's what lads do. Get SMAAASHED!
Why do you think you drink, Helene?
erm
the confidence thing
i get more sociable, have a better time and sometimes it makes it easier to not think about stuff you don't want to think about although obviously sometimes it works the other way.
what worries me a bit though is how much of a habit it's become and how much i rely on it for certain situations
Confidence
To aid me chatting shit to anyone who'll listen.
For the lolz.
Sociability.
Social convention
Also, I tend to drink a lot more when I'm in an unhappy/awkward place than when I'm happy. But equally, if I feel comfortable, I also get more drunk.
.
like the taste, like feeling drug, stimulates conversation, fun, i like the atmosphere of pubs and clubs, aids dancing
RE: the taste. i remember this anti-alcohol guy coming into my school and asking us why we thought people drink, and I said because it tastes nice and he INSISTED that NO ONE likes the taste of alcohol. hahaha
is he my mum?
*form tutor
* parole officer
7/10
:]
ha
souns like the time during sex ed when our teacher said "come to think of it there's basically NO reason you'd want to have sex with someone WITHOUT using protection! Can anyone think of one?"
The first suggestion was "to have children". She got pwned.
:D
:D
was the second suggestion "because it feels about a million times better"?
there are several types of protection, you know
touche
AIDS dancing?
:D
coz it feelz bettah innit
I love it when you have to take your class
down to talks like this. You get all the teachers sitting at the back thinking 'as soon as we've got through to the end of the day we're going to get ratted'.
At a previous school there were lots of teachers who would get a bit sloshed on Friday lunchtime and then try to teach year 10 without them knowing, it became a sort of competition...
:D
:D
because it's better than fucking the pain away
or something.
you can do both
now that depends on how much
you've been drinking :S
ahh, good point
who did that song
'too drunk to fuck'? I think it was the Jesus Lizard or someone.
Anyway yeah, too drunk to stand = too drunk to fuck in most cases.
i dont know
but im pretty sure i'd prefer art brut's song anyway
sometimes i'm really happy i'm not a man
Sometimes it's a good excuse
Dead Kennedys!
Dead Kennedys!
Get back to hardcore school, and don't come back here till you've learnt it all by heart!
^
Fucking the pain away means you have to get someone else involved, which is just too much hassle
I don't, anymore
I hate the idea of not being completely in control over my thoughts, words and actions. My rational self, that is.
You have a rational self?
Cool.
Well, that was probably phrased wrong
My rational self is my only 'self'...
im like that
somepeople say that drinking reduces inhibitions and reveals the real self but i've decided my inhibitions are the defining feature of my real self and I dont like losing them.
sometimes:
because drunk people are annoying when you're not drunk, and LOADS of fun when you are
sometimes: because a gin and tonic tastes really fucking good
Sometimes: because it makes me lots more sociable
^ this
bombay saphire with lots of lime.
ill gladly drink that all night at home, alone with nothing to do but read and listen to music. i dont understand why people see that as depressing.
om nom nom
yeah, i think that's one of the only things (apart from a good bottle of red) that i'd drink alone at home.
I enjoy drinking.
I generally feel happier, more confident, giggly and more sociable when I've had a drink.
Even when I'm on my own, I like to let go and lose a bit of control. Or just feel more relaxed and forget about whatever's stressing me out that week.
Also, a cider or beer/lager can be really refreshing when you're tired, fed up or just on a hot day.
Drinking to the point where you're tipsy and know that one more will tip you over to be properly pissed is my favourite stage.
right now i hate drinking
since this was my #3 pastime previously i am finding it hard to fill my time. i am spending more time on the internet LOL.
I hope you like drinking again for me coming to visit you
We have to get very drunk and dance extremely hard and sick everywhere.
i can dance hard without drinking
and sick? well, i could just eat load of pick n mix?
I want Pick & Mix too
as well as booze, duh
we'll eat pick n mix and do them BH covers
and drink shandy. ok?
It's a DEAL
ok good
i thought for a second you were gonna be like "no wai u r 2 twee 4 me".
Yeah, well I'm FUCKING HARDCORE
But I can twee it up now and again.
Just don't tell anyone, right? x
OMG THE WHOLE INTERNETS KNOWS
Oh well
The internets knows worse things about me
^ this is true
because it makes me feel
tough. I'm actually drinking while I type this.
i'm drinking green tea while i type this
lol
- I really enjoy losing control
- I have an inability to say no to most things
- Helps me to loosen up in social situations as I'm naturally fairly quiet and shy
- I like dancing, and it helps me to dance
- Basically, I just love getting shitfaced drunk. I know full well that thats not big or clever, but I do.
^this
plus it all tastes so nice.
Glad its not just me
who enjoys getting drunk without justification. And yes, pretty much every alcoholic except vodka redbull tastes sublime
i now pretty muchn black out sections of the evening
and am a terrible bore i think, though in turns entertaining. i drink because... i don't think i can let go without it anymore. i'm not especially good at being gregarious without it - though i used to be aces at socialiting.. on friday i more or less spent the first part of the evening staring into my phone until the alcohol kicked in so i could talk to people.. i can't remember the last time i had sex sober. or even kissed someone. gah. so yeah it's a social crutch and i am dependent now. need to quit drinking before i am a proper alcoholic.
i've only kissed two people whilst sober
i fail at life
hi!
i dont at the moment
because im all about positive choices.
and it makes me feel sick and ill the next day, and i dont like not being in control of what im doing. its too easy to blame drink for stupid things.
i use alcohol as an excuse to do stupid things though
like, stuff that i kind of want to do but know that i'd never do sober
yeah but loads of people use the excuse 'i was drunk'
as justification for being an arsehole, and that annoys me.
but i agree it does make certain things easier
For sure
I hate that people can be ultra-annoying, do stupid/horrible things and then say "Oh, but I was drunk, it wasn't my fault" and "I was so drunk, I didn't mean to" as if that counts as an excuse for being a complete jerk.
I hate even more that I've been guilty of that, which I suppose is one reason why I stopped. But it's about the most annoying thing there is....
Yeah, its just peoples failure to take responsibility for stuff they have done
winds me right up, you did have a choice when you decided to get ridiculously drunk.
im having an argument with my kind of gf over this right now
im so fucking angry
I drink to make other people interesting
oooh, this too
^brillant
Who said that again?
George Jean Nathan
The internets great so it is!
I thought it was Groucho Marx
But the internet seems quite certain that it's this Nathan character.
...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Jean_Nathan
sadly true
I actually like the burn most.
Like when you have a bottle of whiskey or a bottle of vodka or both and you down a huge gulp and it feels like your stomach is aflame and everything swirls around and you can't remember anything and can't think of anything about from the fire inside.
i don't
^ martyr
TO NUMB THE WORLD AROUND ME :'(
but seriously, because i like getting absolutely wrecked, rolling around, and getting away with abusing people, knocking drinks over, singing out of key, air guitaring and pulling ridiculous faces for pictures.
When I think of why I drink,
I feel pained and unhappy.Therefore,I try not to think about why I drink.
In fact,I try not to think much at all,and alcohol helps a lot in this respect.
So to escape the boredom and mundanities of real life.How depressing,I think I mught have a drink
*might
*Hiccup
Addiction/Habit
peer pressure,
trying to pretend I'm having a great time when really I'm in a nightclub and there's no such thing as a genuinely enjoyable nightclub.
I'd been off for about two or three months until going out on Friday and Saturday, I'm not really sure how much I gained from going back to the grog.
I don't.
I used to.
I hate it when people go on about how awful they find it to go out and not drink - MTFU, it's better than staying home.
Not necessarily
there are some places I go to (mainly at home) which I would much prefer staying in at home than going to completely sober.
agreed
Do you think that would change if you didn't drink at all?
Or is it just that your friends drag you to some really awful shitholes?
I mean, my friends do occasionally insist on going to terrible clubs, but now that drinking isn't an option for me, I don't think "I'd rather stay home than go there sober", I just go.
It's just
where I live there are only awful places filled with mostly awful people. Apart from my friends, obvs. There would be absolutely no reason for me to go unless I was getting drunk. If I'm somewhere good, where I actually enjoy the music, then I don't need to get drunk.
Yeah but then
if you didn't drink at all, you'd never go out. Would always staying home be better than going to awful places?
Ah
if I *couldn't* drink for some reason? Yeah, I'd still go out just so I could see my friends. And then come home and cry.
Well, I didn't mean specifically if you *couldn't*,
but yeah, that, or you had made a choice never to drink I guess.
I can't drink.
Someone said to me once, "If I couldn't drink I'd kill myself". I felt like saying "well why don't you do it now, just in case".
i don't
cos there's no point
apart from i like guinness
I don;t understand
guinness is vile.It's cancer in alcohol form.It's what Hitler made Jews he really hated drink(Not true,but still)
it's a real drink
not a pissy beverage
I don't
I find being drunk a horrible feeling and dont like how it makes me black out, the gap in memory gets filled with all kinds of doubts and anxieties. Straight edge till death.
I like to dance, drinking helps
It also means that I've just woken up and am a little dazed and feeling weary
* that's dance like a maniac btw
I don't need to be drunk to dance normally
a variety of reasons
social cohesion
the taste
making an evening more fun (to a point, anyway)
sometimes just for the warm fuzzy drunk feeling
To make your face look better
To help me forget about the loneliness
Hepls me hook up
with girls!
And dance....i got moves when i get's boozed!
Helps me forget about real-life issues
Although I did become tee-total for one ear at uni.....got massive respect/trust from most people but always felt like I was missing out on the fun-times
or
to give you an excuse to talk to barmaids?
hahah
but that's pretty much the same thing though, no?
because it becomes easier to tolerate the dull people one is usually surrounded by
when drunk
^
THIS FO' SURE
you guys should make better friends
^
true story.
It makes me care less about people seeing me dance.
Should have read that
And just put ^This
Confidence
I get really self concious if I'm out in a club without drinking, and don't like dancing unless I'm half way to drunk... And even then I still worry people think I look like a fool. Also, I've grown up in a household where we have a glass of wine or a coupla beers with a meal, and so even when I'm away from home at uni I still tend to have a drink in the evening, though my housemates don't.
I drink too much, in all honesty. Meh. Cheers!
to enhance my greatness..
or so i think...
later on it just turns out to be a mistake.
I enjoy the feeling it gives me
I'm not to arsed about gettin pissed at the moment mind it aint that special.
^ this really.
i'm not really liking drinking at the moment.
^
except, not drinking because I have a bladder infection. Not drank for a fortnight now. Not missing it either!
I go thru stages of liking it
and stages of just being bored of it. I really have to be in the right mood for boozin to get pissed or it just goes wrong so I usulay dont do it... very often... if I can help it... *shity eyes*
i don't drink
and i don't know why
i've come to be drinking more regularly
but getting fucked less. I would assume this is good but it may be a case of getting used to the drink :(
but i drink because i like the taste and its quite fun socially, and the weather and sometimes when im stressed it relaxes me out and theres a perfect stage described above of not being quite pissed but almost there which is a wicked numb feeling ting.
i only drink socially
& i hate being sober around drunk people
I drink
becaus it makes everyone else in the World seem less boring. And to give the ugly birds a chance.