I don't want to be too crude about this, but have you ever had it? Obviously it's deliberate in many cases, but I'm sure there are a lot of people who just didn't use contraception. So why did you do it, did you just forget? And who with, was it a one night stand?
Also, perhaps more importantly; to the females.. Did you take morning after pill? How easy is it to get, are there any side effects, etc? And if you didn't, why not?
Na
Wrap it up before you slap it up, innit blud
'I don't want to be too crude about this'
the thread title is UNPROTECTED SEX
in answer...no i havent had it.no sex.ever
I COULD have been cruder...
i really wish you had been now
have you just been having some?
Going bareback & pulling out> wearing a rumpingrahonjohn.
Seriously, though, i'm not a big fan. If a woman demanded i wore one i'd probably just settle for heavy petting.
pulling out is actually not 100% effective
semen can get out even before ejaculation.
yeah but i'm not sure most girls know that.
oh so if she gets pregnant,
you're not bothered?
that's horrible
that's spectacularly selfish
i'm joking.
ah
it just sounds like something you would be serious about
Thats what makes it even funnier though
you're just secretly a dickhead, remember?
;)
Haha
I just find rampant irresponsibility funny in all its guises, whether vaguely misogynistic or not.
Hahahaha
POTD
I propose an ID card scheme
at the border
if you're not joking
you are spectacularly irresponsible.
for opting to not have sex without protection, really?
well
it depends how many sexual partners you do/have had and whether you have regular tests.
but if you've had more than one. yes.
ha, not many.
But sometimes...
Irresponsiblility can be ok...
once I took the morning after pill
about 4 times in one month, i had to lie to the boots pharmacist and go to different branches
*swoon*
:D
Can you just go in and buy it then?
You don't need a presciption or anything?
Of course.
Yes. £30.
For one, that is.
Is there a special on a bulk purchase?
You're not late are you?
no
but they ask you a few questions, about your cycle and when 'the incident' was and if you suffer from this or this and if you are taking any medication. It's £25
Boris Johnson
had to answer questions about his cycle yesterday. Is it a bit like the London Assembly?
We get it free here
because so many children keep becoming pregnant. There's at least 12 of them in year 11 at the moment.
Yeah
If you can have children now they will be seriously deformed.
I did get a bit scared that it would mash up
my insides or something, but then I said to myself 'nah, they wouldn't make it so easy to buy'
ha
I've only done this twice and it was with a boyfriend (was getting off the pill etc). The pharmacist thought I was underage and gave the morning after thingy for free.
And then I had to come back the next month and he looked quite annoyed but pretended we hadn't met before.
required 4 times?
or just super-paranoid?
It's better to be safe!
:D
Super paranoid
I had to be taken to get it by a teacher
and the same teacher held my hair back as I puked it back up again. I don't miss sex with men at all!
cue 2000 lecherous "you're a lesbian?!" posts
You're a lesbian?
You don't hide it well actually, Joe.
The clue is in the beard
it's bad to sleep with teachers
^amazing
Ity's
pretty scary how common-place it is on the gay scene to have unprotected sex, someone I had a one night stand with one said he didn't want to use condoms because they "get in the way" - rather that get in the way then be terminally ill, thanks.
I had a couple of incidents in my teens where I didn't protect myself and I was incredibly stupid for doing so. Luckily I got tested and all was OK but no way in hell would I risk that again.
On the other hand,
condoms are completely ridiculous.
in what sense?
They're just completely ridiculous
It's like dressing up a cat. It's undignified.
at least dressing up a cat
makes stuff MORE fun
they are
and nobody likes using them. Unfortunately they are necessary
No they're not
'Having to wear a condom otherwise' is the most compelling argument for waiting til you're married.
I don't get it
you'd rather wait until marriage?
Of course it isn't always necessary e.g if in a long-term monogamous relationship but in casual encounters with someone of whom you don't know their history then not to is the sign of an imbecile.
Well that's the point
I'm not an imbecile, because I simply avoid casual encounters. Such is my loathing for condoms.
ah that old chestnut
so in a relationship do you wait 3 months
and then get tested before having sex ie to rule out HIV?
And also I apologise for sounding like I was on a high horse before. I have had unprotected sex and I think it was imbecilic.
Just had to drop that in at the end you STUD ;)
I simply wouldn't start a relationship
with anyone without fully inspecting their medical records.
it happens to the best of us
this conversationis making me giggle so much
:D
I actually really want to do this in the future
why do you have to wait three months? Incubating diseases?
I really think it would be nice to have sex in a relationship and be totally upfront about stuff like this (or not avoid the topic, because you're scared about finding out).
Getting tested together = modern romance
the recommendations may have changed
when I used to do testing I believe it was 3 months since last having sex with someone else to make sure. 1 month actually gives very high accuracy though.
great fun
is it two months from now then? Or just under?
LOL.
No, I will definitely have it done quite soon. STD party time!
'someone else'
as oppposed to having sex with oneself
Man
"you're doing it wrong." There are so many more wonderful aspects to sex than working your spaff out. The suggestion that you wouldn't want to do it at all because of slightly reduced stimulation is.. crazy.
It's not the only reason, to be fair
I'd say the overwhelming factor is my lack of ability or desire to share any sort of intimacy with anyone again. And that's been the case for a good year or so. I'm happy muddling along sexlessly. Sincerely.
In which case
it kinda sounds like the condom thing is the, erm, least of the issues..
I don't consider any of the above
to be issues, personally. Fuck what's expected of me. I'm my own man.
I completely agree
I don't get why it is often considered weird to not be sexually active.
at least in the sense of waiting until
someone comes along who you actually really want to boff
I'm fine with not being sexually active -
God KNOWS I'm fine with not being sexually active - but I find the idea of avoiding it because you don't like the condom aspect of it a bit creepy.. Of course, Pigfoot has said since that this isn't the case, so my accusation of creepiness is rescinded.
And if it's a waiting thing, then that's positivelt positive.
no wonder you favour abortion ;)
boring
A moot point, when lives are being saved
LIKE A COWS OPINION.
i love the fact that you
interrupt threads like this with lolz
I'm a lone crap comedy salmon, swimming against the serious tide.
...
but, hey, at least you're swimming
Danger is my middle name.
i'm nearly there
keep going
oh yea
that's right
u-hu
slap my face with it big boy
you dirty slaaaaaaaaaaaaag
bareback all da way
that's right stick it in
its like chuckin a sausage down a hallway witchu baybee
it's like fucking dierdree barlows head babyeeee
gimme sum skin
or neck
you got a cock like a walrus!
you ever watch porn movies and just think
dam this girl is so scary its almost a turn off.................?
your cunts so baggy it barely touches da size wi'tc you babyee
this is my favourite bit of this thread
or any thread recently
no lies
i met an australian guy at leeds fest last year and his middle name was danger
'crhis danger clarke' i think his name was.we didnt believe him but then he got his driving licence out
:D
Sheer brilliance.
I love his parents sense of humour.
crhis sounds like a cool guy
another pedantic bastard!
hands are too fast for my brain!
Sounds like a great rap couplet.
Yes
ALWAYS take the morning after pill, there's nowhere in the UK that you could be meaning you couldn't get it within 72 hours.
Family planning clinic, the doctors, or over the counter. Without a prescription it will cost you £30.
IT REALLY FUCKS YOUR BODY UP. I wouldn't recommend unless in a complete emergency. It comes with a 50 page booklet telling you how to use it/how bad it is for you.
Why not just use the contraceptive pill instead?
Jeez, I only own about £30 to do me 'til payday.
i don't think anyone actually sees the morning after as an alternative?
you have to deal wit